
The youth of today has been widely outclassed; they do not
consider themselves to be too young to be pampered, and they are not supposed
to be old enough to take responsibility on their own shoulders.
The main problems is the communication gap between them and
their elders – the former believing themselves to be old enough for taking
their own decisions for matters personal or social while the latter just refuse
to hand over this responsibility to them. This leads to temperaments rising
high more often.
The most common problem a person faces at this phase of life
is peer pressure. They are pressure by either dares or threats into doing what
one would rather avoid.
Some people are naturally competive and they strive to
act in ways that could help settle their ‘image’ either to impress or
intimidate others. This can be seen in their disobedience of their elders who
try to advise them through experiences which these young ones lack at the
moment but fail dismally.
Six out of every 10 such people are usually short-tempered
and rude in their response. Many hesitate in taking their parents’ advice in
different matters, particularly in issues which according to them are very
modest and thus they land up in taking wrong up decision.
Today’s youth is more
outgoing, more extravagant in their desires and less into their studies; they
are stubbornly leading a luxurious lifestyle and know less of the benefits of
hard work excluding fitness.
However, this article is not Problems faced by the youth
today only about the elite, the privileged. In our society, unfortunately,
there are many young people who cannot even afford to go to school.
They remain
illiterate and are shamefully and mercilessly forced into child labour when
they ought to be learning and enjoying life like the rest of their age group.
A
number of them face problems and some even lost their life or limb, doing jobs
which are meant for older people.
Sometimes, racism and/or discrimination against people of
opposite gender, caste, creed or religion makes them a victim of emotional
disorder.
They have low self-esteem and can easily be overridden by reference
to the general concept of male domination over women who are taken for granted in respect to their
specialization at house chores.
Because today’s children are less concerned
with politics, they are vulnerable to be used in anti-social activities with
false charms that lure them into active participation. They are kept hostages
for ransom and/or turned into militants in the name of religion as displayed by
the Lal Masjid incident.
Last but not the least, are the so-called love issues which
have dramatically been on rise since the past few years but end mostly in the
destruction of lives either by suicide or by eternal misery which renders them
mentally unfit. The depression overpowers them and very few are able to cope up
with it as another aspect of the ups and downs of life.
We should remember that the more we remain down-to-earth and
enjoy life as it meant to be the better we saty for the rest of our lives. One
should always remain aware of where his actions can lead him to in future.
Through it is believed that everything is predestined in our lives, we still
are responsible for our deeds since God has provided us a brain to think before
doing anything.
It can be justly said that this age is the most difficult
part of life and each and everyone of us have to pass the most common problem a
person faces at this phase of life is peer pressure. There are pressuere by
either dares or threats into doing what one would rather avoid. Some people are
naturally competitive and they strive to act in ways that could help settle
their ‘image’ either to impress or intimidate others.
Through it. man is said to be learning throughout his life.
It is not that one cannot recover later in life but by then it may be too late
as time can prove to be the worst opponent in any fight.
Therefore, we should take not of our slip-ups when there is
time left and even if failure approaches us, overcome it with complete
domination as John Keats once said “Don’t be discouraged by a failure. It can
be a positive experience. Failure is, in a sense, the highway to success, in as
much as every discovery of what is false leads us to seek earnestly after what
is true, and every fresh experience points out some form of error which we
shall afterwards carefully avoid.”
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