5 TIPS FOR BECOMING HER OBVIOUS CHOICE: HOW TO GET A GIRL EVERYONE WANTS.

Today you’re going to learn something you've probably wanted to know since you hit puberty: how to get a girl everyone wants. Read: [GIRLS FACT]

You’re probably thinking, “It’s impossible” or “ I've tried everything. She’s just way out of my league.” Your disbelief and dejection is understandable, especially if you've been pinning for this girl for a long time now.

But we’re here to tell you that getting the girl everyone wants is not rocket science. In fact, in many instances, it may actually be easier to get a popular girl than an “average” girl.

Not convinced? Read on find out how you can get the girl every guy wants.

Be Genuinely Interested In Her As A Person

First things first, to get the woman of your dreams, ask yourself if you’re genuinely interested in her as a person or if you’re only pursuing her for superficial reasons. If everyone wants this girl, chances are she’s seen her fair share of jerks that just want her so they can brag to their friends or add a notch to their bedpost. If you’re one of those people, she’ll see right through you. It’s the easiest way to get rejected without a second thought from her.

So, if you haven’t already, take a genuine interest in her. The popular girl is a real person with real interests just like every other girl on the planet. She has her own likes, dislikes, goals, ambitions, fears, and insecurities.

Find out if you’re attracted to the type of person she is or if you’re just attracted to the idea of her being on your arm. If it’s the latter, then quit while you’re ahead. If it’s the former, then you’re on the right path!

Take Care Of Yourself And Your Appearance

Confidence counts for when trying to get the attention of anyone. This holds especially true in relationship and attraction dynamics. In fact, psychology today lists “Being Attractive” as the number one way to strike a romantic spark with the woman of your dreams.

Before you psych yourself out by thinking the only way to get her attention is by winning the genetic lottery, understand that attraction goes far beyond just physical characteristics. You need to make yourself both physically and psychologically attractive.

You can improve your physical appearance by grooming well, dressing nice, paying attention to your body language, and getting in better shape. In fact, when we surveyed women about their biggest turn-offs, dirty fingernails, not using deodorant, unkempt beards, and ill-fitting clothing all made the top 20. The point? If you want to get a girl everyone wants, don’t look and smell like you just spent the last 10 years fending for yourself out in the jungle.

As for being more psychologically attractive, you need to build up your social skills, learn to create stimulating conversation with women, and understand how to initiate appropriate social touching. If you need more help boosting your confidence, giving yourself daily affirmations, and keeping track of your failures and wins to let your progress motivate you.

Be Yourself To Stand Out

Now that you’re both physically and psychologically ready to pursue the girl of your dreams, it’s time to actually approach her. It’s really awesome stuff that will give you a significant edge over any other guy pursuing the girl you want. It’s also the best way to stand out as the obvious choice.

Remember, the girl everyone wants has heard all lines and seen all the moves because she gets hit on by every Tom, Dick, and Harry out there. Even worse, she’s tired of it all and can spot fake a mile away. Stand out from her throngs of suitors by revealing your true self.

Being real with her includes not only approaching her with confidence and without pretense, but also letting her know her. Maintain eye contact when conversing with her, listen to her when she talks, and ask questions to let her know you’re interested in what she’s saying.

Make sure your reactions to what she says are genuine and not just attempts to flatter her. When she recognizes that you’re trying to make a real connection with her, she will definitely take notice.

Get Creative With First Date Choices

If your dream girl is lucky enough to recognize that you’re an original and authentic suitor, a first date is definitely in your future. We’ve said it earlier, but we’ll say it again: the girl that everyone wants has seen it all, especially when it comes to first dates. She’s eaten at all the popular restaurants and seen all the usual haunts.

This means there is extra pressure to set yourself apart during your first date while keeping true to both your interests. The key here is doing something out of the ordinary but still within the realm of both your interests. If you share a passion for museums or art, arrange to meet her at your local museum and pack a picnic for you to dine on while you talk about your favorite exhibits.

If you both want to learn how to cook, work for your first dinner together by going to a cooking class instead of dinning or restaurant. Adventure enthusiasts? Take a page from the Greatist's list of unusual first dates by picking a number of dating options, printing out photos to represent them (e.g. a chopping board for cooking class, a beer bottle for a brewery tour and tasting, or a saxophone for live jazz music), and then let her choose the adventure!

Respect Her And Pay Attention, But Maintain Your Individuality

It’s great to let the girl every guy wants know that you like her for more than just her popularity. But it’s also important to avoid putting her on a pedestal and shining a spotlight on her 24/7.

Don’t completely change your life around her. Make time for her so she knows how much you value her, but also show that you value your own personal goals, friends, and other interests. As a bonus, doing so sends the message that you’re confident enough to assert your individuality and that you value your existing relationships with other people.

Being too available for someone you’re attracted to can have serious drawbacks. She’s probably already dated her fair share of guys who followed her around like a lost puppy and kissed the ground she walked on. Don’t be the next one.

According to psychology today, making all of the sacrifices and concessions for someone you’re pursuing is an easy way to get friend-zoned. She’s already used to guys dropping everything just to get a chance to see her, so be different and make her value you enough that she also has to work for your attention while you’re dating.

Being genuinely interested in her, taking care of yourself, paying attention, giving her a break from the pedestal every other guy puts her on, and asserting your individuality – that’s how to get a girl everyone wants. Now, go get her!!!